Great leaders always ask the question “what can I do better?” They then listen and then do something about it.
I recently asked my wife that question. She gave me a list of six items that I wrote down on paper. I told her that I would be checking in from time to time to see how I was doing. She said that would be fine. Well, I have done that (checked in a few times), and I am seeing improvement, so is she. It has improved our relationship.
This is a simple exercise that can be used in any setting. It is hard to hear a lot of times, but it builds trust and helps you improve. You might even try it with your children. Ask them what you can do better as a father or mother. Don’t try to defend yourself, just listen. If kids feel like you are listening and really do care they will more likely open up to you, which will allow for greater communication in future settings. But remember; if you ask, then make sure you make efforts to improve.
Mike Rogers
www.teamworkandleadership.com
www.secondg.net
